Privacy and Dignity Matter.

Published by Beyond Dementia Australia

When someone living with dementia becomes reluctant to shower, it can be easy to assume they are simply being difficult.

There may be much more going on.

Showering involves a surprising number of steps: remembering what to do, undressing, entering a wet area, coping with temperature changes, maintaining balance, understanding running water, washing, drying and getting dressed again.

Dementia can make several of those steps harder.

The bathroom itself may also feel uncomfortable. It may be cold. The lighting may create glare or shadows. An overhead shower may feel noisy or frightening. A person may worry about falling or feel embarrassed about needing help with such a private activity.

Practical preparation can make the experience easier.

Have towels, soap, clean clothes and other items ready before beginning. Keep the room comfortably warm. Check the water temperature. Reduce slipping hazards and consider grab rails, non-slip surfaces or a shower chair where appropriate. 

Privacy and dignity matter just as much. Allow the person to do whichever parts of the process they can still manage. Simple choices can help maintain a sense of control.

It can also be useful to follow lifelong habits.

If they ave always  showered in the morning, suddenly asking them to shower at night may add another unfamiliar element.

And sometimes the best solution is simply to try again later.

It may also help to ask: " What about this experience might be uncomfortable or frightening for them?”

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General Information Only

This article is intended as general information only and should not replace professional medical advice. Individual needs will vary.